Being a modern-day gentleman is a choice...something we should aspire to and work towards. But what exactly does it mean to be a "gentleman?" At J. Patrick & Co., we don't believe there's one set formula. Instead, it's about being the best version of ourselves. Below are some of the ideas we believe in and hope resonate with you, too. Here's to intentionally giving our best in 2024!
A Gentleman...
- Has an open mind
- Carries a pocket knife
- Is prepared to take notes
- Carries cash
- Looks sharp
- Is fit and exercises
- Wears a nice watch
- Stands when shaking hands
- Treats women with respect
- Is well groomed and rugged at times
- Minds his manners
- Is organized
- Has his home in order
- Has a clean and well-maintained vehicle
- Owns at least one great suit and sport coat
- Is curious and asks questions
- Can start and maintain a conversation
- Stands up for what he believes in
- Celebrates his wins
- Takes responsibility for loss
- Gets after it in in life
- Passes down his values to the next generation
- Works hard
- Has character
- Stands up for the little guy
- Knows how to sell his ideas
- Can deliver a toast
- Makes decisions
- Has good posture
- Can be comfortable alone
- Can be comfortable in a group
- Writes notes of praise and appreciation
- Has a thoughtful gameplan
- Lives life with intention
- Actively listens
- Has discerning taste
- Has passions and hobbies
- Gets his priorities straight
- Makes others feel special
- Does things that makes him feel uncomfortable
- Understands and obeys the rules
- Breaks the rules, if needed
- Takes calculated risks
- Considers the big picture
- Picks his battles
- Is multidimensional
- Asks for help when he needs it
- Learns from others
- Plays the long game
- Is optimistic about the future